The Comfy Corner

I think we've all had those moments where we make a new friend (or a new boyfriend/girlfriend) and the time comes when you must attempt to integrate this new friend into your old circle of friends. It's kind of a dreadful place to be. Awkward hugs/handshakes, so nice to meet you's, heard so much about you's, etc. etc. ad nauseum (First time I've used that phrase, ad nauseum! Hope I used it correctly!). Well, I don't know about you, but every time I have to introduce a new friend I get really anxious inside hoping and praying that they won't be Mr/Mrs. Bottom-of-the-bitter-barrel and scare away my friends. You know the type. The kind of person that just kind of looks bored and stares off into the distance when they meet new people. And inside you're like, "Come on! At least PRETEND to be excited to meet these people! This is important!" And they are all like, "Why should I pretend to be something I'm not?" And you're like, "Because that's just what you have to do sometimes to make a good first impression!" After all, who doesn't want all of their friends to get along, right? So if you happen to be this friend follow these simple rules:

1) Smile! A smile goes a long way.

2) Talk! Silence makes people uncomfortable. And I know it is difficult for some people to jump on board the empty conversation train, but it is a valuable skill!

3) Listen! Don't zone out and act like you'd rather be anywhere else in the world.

4) Laugh! A sense of humor is a valued quality in a new friend, so at least give a chuckle if something is funny.

5) Be slightly conservative... meaning don't lead with your strong personality traits. You need to feel out these new friends before you go all out. For instance, if you have a knack for dirty jokes. Maybe wait until they know your name and where you are from before you whip out the big guns.

Just a few comfy tips for meeting new people. Slash a bitching rant on how not to act if I introduce you to my friends. :)

Stay comfy ya'll!